In his timeless wisdom, John Lennon once proclaimed, "All we need is Love!" Little did he know, he tapped into a profound truth that transcends generations. As adolescents, we often grapple with the existential question of life's purpose, seeking meaning amidst the chaos of existence.
I, too, embarked on this quest and discovered the answer in love. Love, the primal force that ignites our souls and drives our actions, despite our resistance. It grows within us, sometimes painfully, as we struggle against its current, erecting barriers of selfishness, societal norms, and others' opinions. Yet, when we embrace it, life unfolds like a beautifully intricate puzzle.
My epiphany came with meeting my future wife—a gift bestowed from above. In an instant, I recognized my calling—to heal. Not merely with knowledge and skill, but with love. Every endeavor, imbued with love, became effortless and purposeful.
Of course, my journey hasn't been without its challenges. There were moments of heartache—instances where the weight of a heavy-hearted patient left me unsettled. One fateful evening, in such a state, I departed the clinic and, in a rare lapse, collided with a parked car. It was a costly lesson in emotional equilibrium.
Another poignant incident involved my beloved wife. Amidst a rare discord, I harbored resentment and discontent. Fuelled by this turmoil, I ventured out and found myself in a harrowing accident, miraculously unharmed but with a battered car. It was a stark reminder—the price of disharmony.
Since then, I've adhered steadfastly to a profound realization: there is no victory in discord with a loved one. "Do you want to be right or happy?" echoes the profound question posed by therapists. For me, happiness lies in love—for love is truth, and truth is happiness.
Love encompasses not only our partners and families but extends to our work, our communities, and all living beings. Most importantly, it begins with self-love—the recognition of our minuscule yet indispensable role in the universe's grand tapestry. Each of us carries a unique purpose—to embody, proliferate, and share love.
When we lose sight of this truth, we tumble into the whirlpool of conflicts, grievances, and dissatisfaction—unhappiness soon follows. Stress ensues, poisoning our minds and bodies, leading to profound health crises. All because we fail to love ourselves and everything around us.
Consider a scenario—your boss expresses disappointment, and suddenly, self-deprecation ensues. "I'm incompetent," "I'm worthless," the mind echoes. But what if the boss erred in judgment? Even if not, every mistake holds lessons invaluable for growth—embrace them with grace, for they refine our character and fortify our spirit.
Live with love—let it guide your thoughts and actions. Tune into its vibrancy, and life will unveil new vistas of discovery and spiritual growth. The energy of love nurtures creativity, sustains resilience, and shields against adversity. No obstacle, no illness can daunt those who dwell in love's radiant embrace.