However, reality sometimes shatters these expectations. Betrayal can occur even among the closest people in our lives. It leaves us questioning how to move forward and whom to trust.
Blindness to betrayal manifests when one fails to see or acknowledge betrayal happening right in front of them. The need to believe in the goodness of others can blind individuals to signs of betrayal, whether in marital relationships, workplaces, or within society.
Betrayal profoundly impacts one's perception of reality, shaking the very ground beneath their feet. In familial settings, children often blame themselves to cope with parental betrayal, a mechanism that allows them to maintain affection despite mistreatment.
Facing betrayal, individuals may respond with either resistance or withdrawal. Both actions serve as protective measures against the pain inflicted by betrayal.
Yet, when betrayal comes from someone on whom we depend, victims may choose not to acknowledge the betrayal to preserve the relationship. This choice stems from a survival instinct, akin to freezing in response to a threat, known as tonic immobility.
Blindness to betrayal arises from the conflict between maintaining relationships and responding to betrayal. The need to preserve the status quo often outweighs the need for protective action.
Those who survive betrayal may experience severe mental health issues such as depression, anxiety, dissociation, PTSD, or borderline personality disorder. Overcoming this requires a challenging journey of self-discovery and healing.
To resist blindness to betrayal, one must embark on a journey of self-care and empowerment. Find solace in nature, books, friends, music, or any source of inspiration that brings joy and strength.
Ultimately, fostering relationships based on trust and security rather than power dynamics is essential for personal growth and healing.
The article was prepared by Lisa Cooper.